Published on 2025/02/19
NARCISSISM AND SOCIALMEDIA VOL30

It's funny how when we see someone recording themselves in public, talking to their phone and exaggerating gestures, we feel a strong sense of secondhand embarrassment, yet that same video seems much more normal when we see it on social media. It might still make us cringe, but we process it differently. The key difference is that in real life, we don’t just feel discomfort—we perceive the person as ridiculous, out of place. On social media, even if they still seem absurd, the format smooths out that awkwardness and makes it easier to digest.

Editing, music, and dynamic cuts help frame the content in a way that fits the kind of media we consume daily, but if someone seems ridiculous, they’ll remain so, with or without filters.

Another factor is the break in reality. Watching someone film themselves strips away the illusion, like seeing a magician set up a trick before performing it. Then there’s the difference between witnessing something and being an audience—on the street, we feel like unwilling participants in something we didn’t choose to watch, whereas on social media, we’re already in consumer mode, so even if something makes us uncomfortable, it doesn’t trigger the same rejection.

Social dynamics also play a role. When we see someone recording in public, we share the secondhand embarrassment through glances or comments with whoever is next to us. But online, there's no external reinforcement, and we process it in a completely different way.



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Published on 2024/09/03
IT’S ME, ME, ME, AND THEN ME AGAIN

Why do so many people feel the need to share everything they do on social media?

For many, the urge to post every aspect of their lives online stems from a desire for validation or approval. The "likes" and comments serve as a kind of positive reinforcement that makes them feel good about themselves. Each interaction acts like a small dose of dopamine, making it hard to resist the urge to keep sharing.

Social media also allows people to build and display an idealized version of their lives, a sort of digital showcase where everything looks perfect. This might be driven by a narcissistic tendency, where the goal is to attract attention and stand out from the crowd. The pursuit of that "perfect" public image becomes a form of self-affirmation, even if it doesn’t fully align with reality.
It’s a way to compete with others, trying to prove that their life is more interesting or exciting. In many cases, the need to share becomes an endless cycle of comparison and competition, where what really matters is not what is actually lived, but how it is presented to the world.



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Grandma’s 10,000 steps.

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Published on 2024/08/08
NARCISSISM AND SOCIALMEDIA VOL29

Are you becoming sweaty? Is it getting hot in your area? Is your heart beating faster? Do you feel somewhat uncomfortable, like wanting to disappear? Don't worry, it's called cringe and it's normal for you to feel it when you watch these videos.



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The Shining II

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Published on 2024/05/14
THE EMBARRASSING MOMENT OF THE DAY

Being caught off guard with a "Happy Birthday" serenade in the middle of a crowded place tends to generate a noticeable discomfort in the honoree. But, can it get worse? Absolutely. There's always room for an even more embarrassing situation.



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Happy 18th birthday.

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Published on 2024/04/05
NARCISSISM AND SOCIAL MEDIA VOL28

Our society establishes norms and expectations about how to behave in public. When we see someone who seems to ignore or break these norms (like dancing alone in the street), we may feel secondhand embarrassment and discomfort.
Fear of ridicule is a common concern among people, and when we witness someone publicly exposing themselves in a way that could be seen as ridiculous or humiliating, we might experience some rejection as a protective response, precisely to avoid being seen in a similar situation ourselves.

That's why watching videos on social media of people doing things can be entertaining, but seeing them being recorded in public in front of everyone can generate quite a bit of cringe.



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Nature in its purest form.

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Published on 2024/01/29
DANCING WITHOUT MUSIC

I never cease to be amazed by the ability some people have to make a fool of themselves without feeling embarrassed. Some may perceive this as a display of confidence and authenticity, but most of us find it embarrassing. However, being so attractive, you're forgiven for everything. That's the luck you have when you're good-looking.



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When you arrive home earlier than usual and catch your roommate working on her own thing.

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Published on 2023/12/29
NARCISSISM AND SOCIAL MEDIA VOL27

Social media has changed how public opinion is shaped and shared. Influencers and personalities on social platforms can have a significant impact on people's perception and preferences, but watching them create their videos can be quite embarrassing.



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The slow motion of the day.

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Published on 2023/11/14
NARCISSISM AND SOCIAL MEDIA VOL26

Narcissism is a term used to describe a personality disorder characterized by excessive self-interest and admiration. Individuals with narcissism often have an inflated sense of self-esteem and a constant need for attention and admiration. The superficial overexposure on social media is a clear example of narcissism.



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Unlucky in the game, lucky in love.

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Published on 2023/07/17
CLEANING THE BEACH AND OTHER STUFF

After the constant and incessant bombardment of climate change information, the repetition of the phrase "we only have one planet and we have to take care of it", young people are growing up aware and trying, within their possibilities, to pitch in for this great common good.
A girl is dedicated to cleaning the beach, filling garbage bags with plastic remains brought in by the tide. Well, that's what you'll see on their social media platforms anyway. But in reality, it's all about posting what you want others to see and as soon as these people stop recording, they leave the bags right there so that the cleaning services can take care of it, because well, we pay taxes for a reason, right?



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The slow motion footage of the day.

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Published on 2023/06/23
NARCISSISM AND SOCIAL MEDIA VOL25

Feeding your social networks is not an easy task, and you have to pay a high price if you want to receive your daily share of likes and little hearts.



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Fighting on top of a container on a lake. Nowadays people just create stuff for no reason.

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